The final night that Alisha and I spent with Roscoe, the nurses arranged to do molds of his hands and feet. Since things came suddenly, they didn't have time to fully prepare so things were a little improvised. They partially filled an aluminum pie pan with dental alginate. While I held Roscoe sitting upright, we put his feet into the dental alginate while it was still wet. We held them there until the alginate hardened, then removed them and repeated with his hands. This left a detailed impression, like you'd see if someone put their hands into wet concrete.
The nurses then poured plaster into the hand and feet impressions to fill the rest of the pie pans. The result was a 3D mold of his hands and feet with very specific detail:
The detail of the wrinkles on his hands is astounding
You can even see a circular band-aid they had on his wrist
This foot pushed against the bottom of the pie pan
By the time we pushed this foot in, the dental alginate had already started to harden
I mentioned in the last blog post that there was a surprise waiting for us at UCSF when we returned earlier this week. The surprise was that I'd asked the staff at UCSF to do a second mold of his hands and feet. I did this because we were terrified about these first molds breaking. As you may have noticed above, his thumb broke while the plaster was not yet fully dry (we plan to glue it).
When we arrived at UCSF, we met some of the nurses and staff we had spent the most time with and they brought these new molds into the room for us. We loved the different angle, more complete view of his hands, and the ability to hold his feet:
Tomorrow I hope to update the blog with some pictures we took at the Disney museum. The update will come later in the day, since we have an appointment in the morning to speak with a nutritionist about any possible nutritional tools we could use to avoid IUGR / prematurity issues with future pregnancies.
For any moms who'd like to do something like this for your children, you can buy dental alginate and plaster online. It would be a fun craft project! Here's a link to how to do it.
That made my cry (of course), but what a great surprise!
ReplyDeleteLove all three of you!
These are beautiful, and somewhat magical and angelic.....
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad you have them.
I love you two and I love Roscoe.
I'm also super-excited when there is talk of future pregnancies!!!
ReplyDeleteSo precious!
ReplyDeleteThis brought tears to my eyes. What a wonderful way for you to be able to remember him. Love you guys, and I still think of Roscoe and pray for you and Alisha every day.
ReplyDeleteThese are so wonderful and I'm so glad the nurses were able to make the sets for you so you can have beautiful Roscoe with you and hold his little hands and feet. Getting teary again... better go... :)
ReplyDeleteWhat a precious gift indeed!
ReplyDeleteSo very sweet & special! A real treasure! I think of you all often & continue to keep you in my prayers! I'm thankful you were able to have such a special keepsake of him.
ReplyDeleteTotally AWESOME!!!
ReplyDeleteI'm teary, but this is a beautiful way to start the morning. I wish we had done this for my mom... there are so many times that I just want to hold her hand.
ReplyDeleteThis is beautiful!! Tiny, precious hands and feet.
ReplyDeleteChris had individual molds made of he and the boys hands when they were little....the boys were little...priceless
ReplyDeleteThanks for your post. I’ve been thinking about writing a very comparable post over the last couple of weeks, I’ll probably keep it short and sweet and link to this instead if thats cool. Thanks.alginate
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